1999 "It's not the years in your life but the life in your years that counts."
It's time to take a break. Stop trying to do everything for everybody . Do they appreciate your efforts? Stop being the workhorse and see what happens. Others who have been taking you for granted may just start to appreciate you for the first time. Take some of that extra time to look after yourself. Buy that item you've been denying yourself, even if it means you have to cut a thinner slice of pie for someone else. Your mental health improves this year as you begin, perhaps for the first time, to really get a grasp of who you are. You learn that you have to row with the oars you were given. In all, a year of real growth mentally and physically if not financially.